Vietnam's White Party: A Fun Review

Let’s get one thing out of the way first:
Yes, I went to Vietnam’s first-ever White Party dressed as a banana.
No, I do not regret it.
And yes, somehow, it worked.

If you’re here because you’re Googling “White Party Vietnam,” “gay party Vietnam,” or “is the gay circuit party scene in Vietnam worth it?”—welcome. You’re in the right place. Consider this your honest, slightly tipsy, but very sincere review.

Why I Even Went to White Party Vietnam (And Why I Stopped Trying to Be Sexy)

I spent most of my life thinking I was the ugly duckling. That energy followed me well into my 20s—chasing validation, chasing hot boys, chasing the idea that if they liked me, I must be hot too.

Exhausting.

So when tickets for White Party Vietnam went on sale, I panic-bought one on a whim. And then, a week before the event, I had a realization:

What if I just… didn’t try to be sexy?

Instead of forcing myself into a harness I hate, what if I showed up comfortable, confident, and slightly ridiculous?

Thus, the banana was born.
White on the inside. Yellow on the outside.
Lyrical. Conceptual. Art.

The Reality Check: Vietnam’s White Party Didn’t Go as Planned

So, some context.

White Party Vietnam was originally scheduled for July 20–21, and there was genuine hype. People were flying in. Locals were excited. Then, quite literally, the entire country went into mourning due to the passing of Vietnam’s General Secretary the day before the event.

The party was postponed to August 30–31, which unfortunately fell on a national holiday. Translation:

• Tourists couldn’t return

• Locals had family plans

• Ticket sales suffered badly

So yes—attendance was low. Very low.
But honestly? Given the circumstances, the fact that the event still happened at all deserves credit.

The Venue & Bar: Surprisingly Solid

The event was held at Phú Thọ Stadium, and I was pleasantly surprised.

Pros:

• Clean, spacious venue

• Solid lighting and sound system

• Enough room to move without feeling claustrophobic

The bar:

• Simple setup

• Limited selection

• Not cheap by Vietnamese standards, but very reasonable by Western ones

I spent around 500,000 VND total on drinks, and as a certified lightweight, that was more than enough.

VIP?
Still don’t get it. Sitting away from the dance floor has never screamed “fun” to me.

The Music: Better Than Expected for a Gay Circuit Party

I’ll admit it—I’m not usually a gay circuit party music girlie. I was expecting monotonous, bathhouse-adjacent house music.

Instead?
It was… actually kinda hype and ravey.

Was it revolutionary? No, but for a circuit party I was very surprised at how much I actually enjoyed the music. Maybe it was the remixes of Lady Gaga that kept me going, but I didn't feel like I was standing inside a bathhouse!

Also, the alcohol helped. Admittedly. But credit's due where credits due: the DJs did their job. The beats were varied enough to avoid boredom, which is more than I expected going in.

The Go-Go Boys: Hot, But Low Energy

Let’s be honest: the go-go boys were attractive. No complaints there.

But the energy?

A little… flat.

It felt like they knew attendance was low and adjusted their effort accordingly. I don’t blame them—it’s a job—but compared to bigger circuit parties, the vibe wasn’t explosive.

That said, I didn’t spend much time watching. I was busy dancing, socializing, and living my best banana life.

The Crowd & The “Chin Chin Effect”

If you’re familiar with Chin Chin, one of Ho Chi Minh City’s most popular gay bars, you already know what I mean.

Groups stick to themselves.
People come to be seen, not necessarily to connect.

That same energy showed up at White Party Vietnam—but softer.

Because the venue was large, it was easier to roam, chat one-on-one, and find your people. Breaking into groups was still tough, but not impossible.

And here’s the key:
Your experience depended heavily on luck.

I happened to find an amazing group in the back to dance with (shoutout to Kim—you’re a legend). Without them, the night could’ve felt very different.

So… Was White Party Vietnam Worth It?

For me? Yes... ish? Kinda.
But with conditions.

White Party Vietnam is worth it if:

• You’re open-minded

• You don’t expect a massive muscle-god crowd

• You’re okay making your own fun

• You care more about vibes than validation

It’s probably not worth planning an entire trip around—especially when Bangkok’s White Party exists and delivers the full circuit experience.

But if you’re already in Vietnam when it happens again?
Go. Why not?

Final Thoughts

Despite everything working against it, White Party Vietnam still managed to deliver a fun, memorable night—banana costume and all.

I met kind people.
I danced.
I laughed.
I stopped trying to be sexy and started being myself.

And honestly? That alone made it worth the ticket price.

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